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"Helping Fatherless Daughters Find True Love and Success"
.....Your Journey to Renewal and Rebirth!
The Love Lifestyle Center is an online resource center, designed to help Life Coaches, Entrepreneurs, Ministers, Personal Development Consultants, Counselor or Teachers, who happen to be a "Fatherless Daughter", discover the keys to true love and success in life.
Help Yourself First...
Let's face it! Sometimes the coach needs to be coached. You are inundated from other guru coaches on how to make more money, how to grow your list, how to get more clients, and how to market your business. But is that really all you need? Absolutely not! Nothing outside of yourself will prepare you for the kind of success you can achieve, until you deal with what's happening within. We all know this on some level, but now it's time to access this on a deeper level.
We are the door keepers to giving life and empowerment to many, therefore, we must address our own secrets in order to effectively help others succeed in life. Our clients depend on us to help them. It's time to shatter the glass ceiling on this Fatherless Daughter Syndrome that has kept you stuck. It will continue to hold your life captive, until you are ready and willing to meet it square in the eyes and tell the truth!
Don't hide behind your degrees, certifications and credentials. Of course you know how to help others effectively. Of course you have a successful business or ministry. But are you giving from a full cup or an empty cup? If you haven't dealt with the Fatherless Daughter Syndrome, your cup is surely empty.
You give to others from your overflow; you give to yourself from a full cup and an empty cup serves no one.--Angela Carr Patterson
What is a Fatherless Daughter?
A Fatherless Daughter is a female who grew up without direct contact or interaction with her father who was absent due to separation, death, divorce or abandonment. A father who lived in the same home with his daughter may also be considered absent if he was not emotionally available or connected to her and didn't play a major role in her development. Females with absent fathers grow up without the day to day experience of having an attentive, caring and loving interaction and relationship with an adult male.
"If you've never had any real meaningful connection with your father or the father figure in your life while growing up, you could be the victim of The Fatherless Daughter Syndrome. Whether you are 5 years or 85 years of age, you still yearn to be validated your by Daddy"--Angela Carr Patterson
What Does This Mean?
This one key missing element from a woman's life can have a negative impact on her self worth, self image, sense of value and that of feeling loved!!
The Fatherless Daughters Syndrome affects many women regardless of race, economics or geographical region. Webster's Dictionary defines syndrome as "a group of signs and symptoms that occur together and characterize a particular abnormality."
When a girl is left without her father, she grows up feeling an emptiness inside and she struggles with abandonment and rejection issues.
On the topic of a father's absence, Dr. Richard Horowitz says...
"It leaves a hole in their soul that is extremely difficult to fill, and they carry this father hunger into adulthood until they deal with it?"
Are You a Victim of The Fatherless Daughter Syndrome?
Some women disagree with this concept and feel their fathers' absence had no real impact on their lives. But, even if it's merely subconscious, it does impact how we now view ourselves, our relationships and our lives, as a whole. We must be honest with ourselves. We've come up with four typical personality traits of a Fatherless Daughter and we called them The Four Archetypes of a Fatherless Daughter:
The Four Archetypes of a Fatherless Daughter
The Long Distant Daughter
Concerning Relationships: You desire love, but you have difficulty connecting on a deeper level with people and allowing men to get close to you. You become very defensive, afraid of commitment in order to guard your heart. You are even distant at times with your children, not really knowing how to connect with them and show them how you really feel about them.
Concerning Business: This has also been the source of your pain in your career and even your relationship with money. Your clients sense a distance from you and they sometimes feel that you don't quite connect with them. You have seen many clients leave and not really able to communicate why they left. Your income fluctuates and you can't seem to get a handle on your finances. You make money and even have a savings, but something always seems to come along and take it, such as a health issue, a flat tire, an unexpected emergency. It seems as if, money and clients leave as quickly as they come.
The Independent Daughter
Concerning Relationships: You move at the speed of lightening. Always trying to get to the next level in life. You will never allow yourself to depend on a man or anyone else for that matter. You are an over achiever, wanting and needing more in order to feel safe and secure. You are constantly going back to school, looking for a better job, reading self help books, going to workshops and etc. You are constantly improving and pushing your children to do more, be more and go higher. They feel like you are never quite happy with who they are and they become exhausted and angry from trying to live up to your standards for them.
Concerning Business. You sometimes use hard core marketing to sell your services/goods. You are very competitive and always looking for that next, new client. Your business is never doing as well as you want it to. You constantly feel that you need more clients, more money, more ideas...even if it really is enough. You are constantly expanding and trying to grow your business, never really feeling that you have reached a real goal. Your clients feel overwhelmed by your many offerings and how hard you push them instead of inspiring them. People feel overwhelmed by you because you will never let good enough, be enough.
The Baby Daughter
Concerning Relationships: You crave love in your life. You are not happy unless you are in a relationship. But the relationship has to be perfect in "your eyes." You have had numerous break ups and it's always the guy, who has hurt and wounded you. You often find yourself crying and depressed. You want prince charming to come and sweep you off your feet and take care of you. And if he leaves one thing out, you feel hurt and mis-treated. It doesn't matter what is done for you, it's never enough and you are always the victim. You are often this way with your children and friends. You can become clingy, possessive, demanding and jealous at times. You require lots of attention from your man. You hold onto a man for dear life in fear of abandonment like your daddy. You hold onto your kids, smoothering them while trying to protect them...because your daddy never protected you.
Concerning Business: You micro-manage your team and expect them to do everything perfect. You have lots of appointments and check ins with them regularly. You don't allow them to make mistakes and you get really upset when they do and you take it personally. You become the victim. You are perfectionist and you are constantly updating your websites, tweaking your ideas and still it's not enough for you. It has to be perfect. You will allow your clients to pay you late, you discount most of your services and even do alot of them free of charge. You over give in your services because you just want to have the opportunity to interact with your clients often, even if you have to do it free of charge. Then you feel victimized by them and taken advantaged of. Your finances are a mess because you don't require people to pay you on time or at all for that matter.
The Popular Daughter
Concerning Relationships: You have been called promiscuous, and have had many sexual partners. You just want to be close to someone, even if it's not real love. You often dress in ways to show off your body. You believe that men are attracted to you physically and so you use your looks and or your body to get what you want. You haven't learned to develop the deeper parts of yourself...the real you. You are very popular with men and they like you because you are very generous with yourself. You get a rush when it comes to sex, but after the act, you still feel guilty, empty and alone.
Concerning Business: As in your business, you do the same thing. Your clients love your very contagious personality. You are funny and you know how to get your clients all excited about your services. The first few sessions are great and then you start to slow it down, cancel or reschedule appointments, skip meetings, don't return phone calls promptly. The rush from getting the new clients starts to fade quickly for you. Your ratio for keeping clients is low. But your outgoing personality always seems to attract new ones... the problem is keeping them. It's the same with your money, you make it quickly, but you spend it twice as fast. Your follow through is terrible when it comes to business and money.
All of these women have set a pattern, and until they are willing to acknowledge and admit that there is a problem here, the syndrome will continue to have control over their lives.
Being authentic and telling the truth is your first step to creating the Love Lifestyle!
"This one key missing element in my life had a profound impact on my relationships.
My fear of rejection and abandonment kept my relationships in turmoil, until I learned how to make love work in my life."--Angela Carr Patterson
"Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally" Dr. Ellen McGrath, Psychology Today
Reclaiming What Belongs to You!
This breakthrough discovery literally changed my life and it will do the same for you.
Many fatherless daughters see themselves inaccurately, their perceptions of themselves are distorted by unchallenged and often erroneous beliefs embedded in their subconscious mind.
They hold a self image buried deep in our subconscious mind and that self image controls everything they say, think and do. Your life will never be different from what your self image says you are. When you release that old limiting self image of who you are not, and begin to see yourself as the woman you were meant to be...you will automatically become that new woman.
With a new and authentic self image of a woman who is loved and lovable, you'll be able to create anything you want in life automatically, without effort or willpower.
"My defining moment was when I decided to let go of who "I'm not" to become the woman I was born to be."--Angela Carr Patterson
This is Your Moment to Experience....
A Proven, Breakthrough, 3 Step System to Help You Find True Love and Success!
1. Using my "I'm Not That Woman" Self Discovery Technique TM, I will show you how to clear the negative influences and inaccurate perceptions of yourself that stemmed from your past and no longer serve you. Even the ones you don't know are there.
2. Then incorporating my 8 step process of "Your Journey to Being,TM" you will begin to replace incorrect, limiting self images with a true, authentic self image. When you reach step 8, you will reach your "State of Being," where you will quickly manifest your heart's desires and dreams and begin to effortlessly create your own Love Story.
3. Finally, I will help you design a completely personalized "Love Lifestyle Archetype Model"TM for your life. This model will enable you to automatically and effortlessly take actions, make choices and decisions that are consistent with who you were born to be.
Based on my foundation belief, "there is in the mind a God... a Perfect Image of who you really are," my Love Lifestyle System will help you discover that image.
Through This System You Will Also:
Helping Others is Your Passion...Helping You is Mine!!
As a person who teaches others how to live their best life, I understand the pressures to get it right. But I also realize that in order to be effective and create successful lasting results with helping others, we must first be free ourselves. Your clients will sense your authenticity and you will too. I also understand that you need a safe, private and reliable space to heal. Through quiet sensitivity and tender encouragement, I will show you how to you can heal, love, prosper and grow. You will never, again, have to wonder if you'll ever find true love and success. You will know with an absolute assurance, that love and success is possible for you.
Angela Carr Patterson, The Love Lifestyle Coach
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